Leave The Ex Alone
(Atleast For Now)
You are going to need to take a completely fresh approach. Begin by breaking contact off for a while, doing your own thing. During this time where there is no communication between you and your ex , you can focus on ways that you can improve your own personal life, rather than focusing on the relationship issues at hand. This is going to be a challenging time, and it is going to require discipline to prevent you from returning to your old ways.
During this time our ex will actually change the way they view us. Cutting off all contact will turn us into a much more mysterious being. They will no doubt start to wonder what is going on. Why arent we calling anymore? Did we change our mind? Find someone else? And all kinds of other questions.
You know what? Our ex will actually start to miss you. Now that there is no more smothering they will have a chance to think a little more clearly. And most likely start to remember all the really great things that made them love you in the first place.
We have got to remember that when repairing a break up , we must work with human nature, not against it.
So keep cool and dont over do it. this is just one of the things that can be done to get your ex back.
Get Your Ex Back
(Atleast For Now)
Its hard. All we want is for our ex to come back. We call , write, and text in hopes that something , anything will suddenly turn on some magic switch that wakes them up.
"If he could just know how much I love him."
"How can she just stop feeling that way for me?"
So many questions. So confusing as to how they could just turn off the feelings that you still have.
But right now there is really nothing we can do to or say to change there mind. We must try to understand where they are coming from. Might as well. Nothing else has worked. And we have practically set them up for a different "tactic" by showering them with all the "unwanted" attention.
"If he could just know how much I love him."
"How can she just stop feeling that way for me?"
So many questions. So confusing as to how they could just turn off the feelings that you still have.
But right now there is really nothing we can do to or say to change there mind. We must try to understand where they are coming from. Might as well. Nothing else has worked. And we have practically set them up for a different "tactic" by showering them with all the "unwanted" attention.
You are going to need to take a completely fresh approach. Begin by breaking contact off for a while, doing your own thing. During this time where there is no communication between you and your ex , you can focus on ways that you can improve your own personal life, rather than focusing on the relationship issues at hand. This is going to be a challenging time, and it is going to require discipline to prevent you from returning to your old ways.
During this time our ex will actually change the way they view us. Cutting off all contact will turn us into a much more mysterious being. They will no doubt start to wonder what is going on. Why arent we calling anymore? Did we change our mind? Find someone else? And all kinds of other questions.
You know what? Our ex will actually start to miss you. Now that there is no more smothering they will have a chance to think a little more clearly. And most likely start to remember all the really great things that made them love you in the first place.
We have got to remember that when repairing a break up , we must work with human nature, not against it.
So keep cool and dont over do it. this is just one of the things that can be done to get your ex back.
Get Your Ex Back
